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Maundy Thursday and Good Friday 2020 – The Coronvirus C19 Year

April 12, 2020 by Susan

The creators of the Happier podcast suggested keeping a Covid 19 diary as these are strange times to be living through and keeping a record would be good. I have been doing this but realy wanted to blog about it too, mostly to look back on comaratively in the future. Fairly typically I haven’t got round to it until now.

So like everything else at this time the Easter period has been strange. Having really not focused much on lent or holy week I want to start to engage more – so after finishing work on Thursday evening I joined with Ely Cathedral for their liturgy of the last supper.

Good Friday – this was the first time I had ever worked on Good Friday – students until 12.15. I got super organised with my hot cross buns and made them on Thursday between students and got their first rise in, then left them shaped in the fridge overnight, they hadn’t risen much over night but I took them out and gave them a few hours to rise.

I missed church Zoom communion but managed to get on facebook for the virtual walk of witness, in the kitchen while cooking hot cross buns. We then scoffed them in the garden.

Easter Tree cobbled together from the bits of apple tree prunings in the garden.

I had intended to spend Good Friday afternoon having some space gfor quiet reflection but it didn’t quite work out that way. I had work admin and invoicing to do and then clearing up ready for the Easter weekend. So instead I managed to listen to a huge range of very varied spiritual listening while doing housework, mowing the lawn and cooking dinner:

Pray As You Go, Lectio Divina style meditation

Radio 4’s Good friday Meditation

The liturgists podcast – pretty varied even within this one podcast to be honest – nice breathing prayer for the last 20 minutes.

Filed Under: Chritianity, Covid 19, Family, Happiness, trauma Tagged With: christianity, coronavirus, covid 19, Easter, food, Good Friday, podcasts, religion

Lent

April 19, 2014 by Susan

I haven’t managed a single blog post throughout Lent so now a quick round up. Facebook: For the 3rd year in a row I gave up facebook for Lent, this was surprisingly both much harder and much easier than previous years. It was harder because I found that I use facebook in a different way to the last couple of years. I am using it much more to arrange things and to keep in touch with local friends and I realised part way through that a number of my local friends I only have facebook contacts for and it was very hard to connect with them in a practical way without. at one point I had to get one friend to contact a group of other friends to let them know about a meet up I was having as I didn’t have any other contact details. I also run a maths tutor group and I have a facebook page that I interact with them on – in the end for this I set up a different facebook persona so I could keep doing this group and felt this wasn’t cheating. In the last couple of weeks a friend was trying to keep a number of us updated with some important news and in the end I joined this group with my second persona as I felt keeping up to date on this issue was more important than my facebook fast a case of “the Sabbath being made for man not man for the Sabbath!” I don’t think I will do this again next year as I actually found it very hard to practically contact people without facebook, particularly in a group setting. It was easier because I found I didn’t miss sitting at my computer wasting time on it as much as I had in previous years. I think this was due to my increased interest in crochet and zentangling as well as connecting with my other Lent discipline.

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Living Intentionally: I decided to try this for a second year, to not specifically take up or give up something but rather to try and live as I intend rather than what just happens to happen to me. Some time ago I read a book by Michael Neill called You Can Have What You Want. This was really the first specific self help book I had read as I had been rather snooty about the genre as the people I saw reading them seemed to jump from one to the next and never actually changed – I have now become one of these people – I love self help books. The main thing I took from this book was the concept of “do what you want not what you feel like” and this is what my living intentionally is about – doing what I really want to do not what I feel like doing at the time. This has worked in some ways and not others, I have been trying to keep on top of things at home by making sure that everything gets put away when they are finished with, doing the last of the dishes before going to bed. these things were very successful for the first 4 weeks and then suddenly seemed to get much much harder for the last 2. I have tried to meditate more – this worked well for the the first couple of weeks but then rather went by the wayside! So I have definitely been more thoughtful about how I’m living but sometimes i haven’t let my actions follow my thoughts.

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Family Stuff: We decorated eggs – keeping it simple this year with shapies We’ve done our family beans again. We get a dried bean for every good deed done and on Easter Sunday they are transformed to jelly beans, This year we also gave bravery beans and achievement beans. The girls have done 40 acts again and Jonathan, Martin and I have been doing the Love Life Live Lent booklets again. The girls did well and were fairly consistent, Martin and I were rubbish at doing ours and Jonathan has been trying to do about 3 weeks worth of activities on Easter Saturday! I tried to do Lent candles with the the family as suggested by Sacraparental but this hasn’t really been adopted by us as a family in the same way as our advent candle and readings – perhaps because it isn’t dark or just perhaps because it is getting a little late in the day to start new traditions with the kids. We also managed a Learning Zone Easter egg hunt.

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Rebekah is clearly getting indoctrinated by me. She suggested on Good Friday that we lit a candle for each of the 7 last saying of Jesus which we did while listening to At The Foot of The Cross on Radio 2 Church Stuff: We took the palm Sunday service at church and I was scheduled to preach on the cross – you can listen here if you have 20 minutes with nothing better to do! This gave me a good excuse to give out palm crosses. We also took a meditation service on Good Friday – this has become a tradition for us now and every year our congregation grows – it’s a chance to be quiet and reflect – I love doing this. Jonathan and Rebekah did the Good Friday walk of witness through Newport and the rest of us stayed at the church and prepared teas and hot cross buns.

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  Baking: We usually make an edible Easter garden but this year we have made hot cross buns, Easter biscuits, nests and a simnel cake.

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